Judy, I met you in the 80's & we became best friends very fast. You're theater auditions were the BEST! For the 1st " Babes in Toyland", which I believe you wrote, were the most creative auditions that I've ever experienced. You had my son pretend he was sneaking into his parents closet, taking down a gift, unwrapping it, peaking inside, and replacing back on the shelf without being caught in the act. Then he was to pretend a room is closing in on all sides with him inside. I thought,
" Here is a very creative person who loves children." Then one evening you said, Judy, to me," Do you have a white turtle neck shirt , black leggings and black boots?" Ut oh! I knew what that meant. I was to be in the live show as a replacement that evening. " Can you go get them?" You asked. Now you have to understand that Judy, when you asked me to do something, the answer was ALWAYS, "Yes, MAM." Ran home & went on stage because I knew the "dance of the tin soldiers". Oops. From there I helped with costumes and took a child in a back room who were singing "off key", to coach him in the future- "Charlie & the Chocolate Factory", as they rehearsed the music at your Judy K Studio on Florida St, Mandeville. I can still remember "like a rolling camera", his 'off key' voice. I loved Judy so much that I taught Kindermusik for 6 years under her business & gave you all of the profit. We also used your Judy K Studio to practice music for " The Christmas Past", in Mandeville for many years. It hasn't been the same since. It's your influence , Judy, you influenced me to join the Old Mandeville Business Assoc. You see, you had THAT much influence as a very special person. Once while singing at Christmas as a group at the Mandeville Trailhead, & of course with you, Judy, directing, you looked at me with a sterness. I realized I had not paid attention & had started singing in the wrong key. That I'll not forget, as I can still see your face at that moment. You were respected and one listened to your every word--- most of the time. Co- directing a musical with you, Judy, was 'something else' burned into my memory & had humerous moments. You gratiously allowed me to " give notes" 1st before you did, to the cast of 50 actors. When I finished, you looked at me bluntly & said," Are you FINISHED?" ( in an authoritan voice I had learned to LOVE). I replied in the affirmative. Judy, you then said,
" Okay then, we are finished" ( with "notes").
In Jan.1997 I moved to Dallas but just had to return so that 3 of my children could enroll in your special summer work shop at The Masonic Hall near the Landing , Covington & with Russel Krogsgard, Judy, and Ray Perrer, a tap dancer, all teaching some part. In a Vaudeville version of Pinocchio, my son played Gapetto, my daughter , Beltramo the cat, and younger son, with marionettes & jokes. You remember. The children made their own papier mache mask and marionette puppets. That's how amazing of a teacher you were. It was 3 weeks. I was willing to pay the $150/ child for 3 weeks while staying at the well known Green Springs Motel. It didn't matter, because you crrated the best summer theater experience ever.
Recently, while visiting you at Heritage Manor, we took turns with different attitudes in voice saying the words of film star Marilyn Deitrich,
"I want to be alone." It was hilarious. My small dog fell asleep curled in your bed at your insistence. I woke you up to leave. You asked me, if my small dog could have a sleep over. You LOVED ANIMALS.
You were like a mother to me and your husband, Russell, I renamed, " Old Wise One", as you know.. I see Russel every day at the side of my driveway represented by a stained glass Owl on a garden stake. I would call him when making an important decision. You were both quite the power couple. Judy, I will miss you forever. You gave me talents and courage that I didn't know I had. You were loyal and encouraging as you saw nothing as a problem that couldn't be solved. You began my daughter's singing which led to singing "The National Anthem" at Sporting events at The Dome, The Arena, Tulane Basketball and Zepher field and I am forever thankful that you entered my life as the greatest influencer, since my own mother. I'm going to say the words my daughter sang at Russel Krogsgard's memorial at Playmakers Theater, which is from the Broadway Musical, " Wicked".
🎵"I've heard it said
That people come into our lives 🎶for a reason
🎶Bringing something we must learn
And we are led
🎶To those who lives help us most to grow
🎶If we let them
And we help them in return
🎶Well, I don't know if I believe that's true
🎶But I know I'm who I am today
Because I knew you:
🎶Who can say if I've changed for the better?
🎶But because I knew you
I've been changed for Good. 🎶You've left a handprint on my heart. Love you Judy. 💞And, I know that we will continue to enjoy a long relationship again, in Heaven. I look forward to that. We shall sing and laugh as we quote film lines that you love 💞. TTYL