On behalf of our family, I wanted to thank everyone for their condolences,
memories, calls and notes. It will take time for mom to grieve and adjust,
as they were inseparable for 69 years. Dad had been in declining health
with Parkinson's, among other issues for several years. He adamantly
wished to remain in his own home until the last breath, and Hospice care
made that possible for him. In those 11 days, he seemed to be reliving
his whole life's experiences, talking to everyone he had ever known -
family, colleagues, friends and neighbors - sometimes all night long. He
said he had fantastic dreams, but could not recall them. He seemed to be
recounting family gatherings, business meetings, fishing trips, conversations
and telling jokes. None of the stories were negative - only positive. On
the Thursday before he passed, he told Hospice nurse Susan that he was
ready to go, right that minute! Impatient until the end, Dad would pass up
a lingering view of the Grand Canyon (while traveling from Fountain
Valley, Ca. to Fla. and Ga. to visit family) to hurry up and get to the fishing
holes. Also on that day, he tremulously sang this song for mom and the
nurse:
Fly me to the moon
Let me play among the stars
Let me see what spring is like
On a, Jupiter and Mars
In other words, hold my hand
In other words, baby, kiss me
Fill my heart with song
And let me sing for ever more
You are all I long for
All I worship and adore
In other words, please be true
In other words, I love you
Fill my heart with song
Let me sing for ever more
You are all I long for
All I worship and adore
In other words, please be true
In other words, in other words
I love you
Dad passed away peacefully on Sunday aroung 7:30 AM. Immediately
after that, the skies let loose with a huge thunderstorm. Definitely not a
good day for fishing, but a fitting day for passing. We'll miss you!!!!
Jenny, Reed and Kyle