The great defect of memories taken down in youth is youth’s blind indifference to truth: to circumstance and occurrence, to importance and meaning, to all those realities that exist just outside the purview of immaturity. So, I admit it: my memories of Kenneth LaCour are clouded in ego and tainted by childish need. Still, what I remember from that time is a man who was always there, quiet in support, hushed in encouragement, silent in criticism, mute in judgment: a drive to New Orleans so that St. Paul’s entry, The Brick and the Rose, might compete, refreshments at St. Joseph’s Abbey, an uncritical vigil for an Apple Tree’s opening night. He was our English teacher’s husband so how else should we remember him than in poetry: “What a piece of work is a man / How noble in reason / How infinite in faculty / In form and moving how express and admirable?” Youth’s adequate reward is being young but once in awhile God rewards adulthood in equal measure. I had one conversation with Ken in my old age. He spoke of bridges--well, really of the vanity of maintaining bridges. And it struck me then that he was not just there all those years ago. He made things happen. He made things possible. He kept things going and we–lucky kids –were along for the ride. So I remember him now, constant and sturdy, as other Catholic schoolboys might: he is Kenneth Pontifex, and my world, our world, is smaller without him in it.