For dad:
Because of dad, I developed a love for reading and books.
Because of dad, I learned how to be compassionate to nature and love animals.
Because of dad, I understood the importance of honesty, integrity, and keeping my word.
Because of dad, I valued humility and the importance of forgiveness.
Because of dad, I learned to be open to different beliefs and to respect opposing views.
You see, Dad… the wisdom you shared wasn’t loud. It didn’t demand attention.
It lived quietly—in your actions, in your choices, in the way you carried yourself every single day.
Some of my fondest memories are when you went to Georgetown and came back with books for Al and me.
It wasn’t just about the books—it was what they represented.
You were opening a door for us. You were showing us that imagination matters, that learning matters, that there is always more to discover.
And that was you.
Curious. Thoughtful. Grounded.
A man of quiet integrity.
As I reflect on your life, the poem written by bother Chrish *“Where the Path Fades” resonates with me.
It speaks of someone looking back on the place that shaped them—asking questions of the sky, the birds, and the silence itself.
That sense of wonder… that quest for meaning… that was you.
And then the poem gently shifts. It speaks of a moment we all must face—when the path ahead does not simply end… it dissolves. And in that moment, there is uncertainty, but also a quiet acceptance.
In our belief, we understand that this is not an ending.
The body may fade, but the Atman—does not.
It continues its journey, returning to the eternal, to the infinite presence that is beyond name, beyond form.
There is a line in the poem that says, “A divine boatman is waiting.”
And I see that not as something to fear, but as something sacred—a crossing. A gentle passage from this world to the next.
Like crossing a river, as described in our scriptures… leaving behind what was never truly ours to hold, and returning to what has always been.
So today, we do not say goodbye as an ending.
We release you with love.
We honor your journey.
We trust that you are at peace—guided, held, and continuing forward.
The poem asks us to bid farewell not with words, but with silence—like releasing a handful of ash into the wind.
And maybe that’s how we honor you best.
Not just with our words—but with how we live.
With the integrity you showed us.
With the curiosity you inspired in us.
With the love you gave so freely.
Dad, your journey continues.
Your Atman is eternal.
And everything you gave us will live on—in us, through us, always.
Om Shanti